my girlfriend problem!!

[soubribra]

Please excuse my english, I'm from Morocco so here goes
My girlfriend and that i have been dating for more than 12 months. Last December she moved away to another state. We have made several plans for college, careers, etc. We're away for upwards of 4 months now however want to fly there come july 1st. Long-distance relationships are tough i have been really depressed since she left and no longer even hang out with my good friends. As of recently she gets been much happier from becoming friends with an old friend again and getting together with her often. Last monday she discussed how she was really excited for friday. Gurus why and she said shes spending time with her friend. She was acting type of strange and i also usually don't ask nosey questions however thought we would ask what their doing friday and he or she said visiting a friends house. All of those other week went effectively being reminded of methods soon summer and being reunited is and much more telephone calls and skyping than normal. On friday once i asked whats up she replied during this friends house. She then texted other times before she went a few hours without texting me. I dislike to believe anything might be happening as she tells me how important it really is for individuals never to drink or whatever could threaten our relationship from this far. She texts me each day regarding how she cant stop vomiting. This raises my worries more on the other hand ignore it and continue to help her feel better. We joked around and talked over the day until she started discussing riding a bike with someone on monday if its nice out. I could not hide my uncomfortableness about the other day any longer and unintentionally my texts started sounding unhappy. She asked if she did anything after which references how her friends say she should leave me. I answer in one word replies because i do not know what else to say. She says she thinks she should inform me something i quickly assume and enquire of if she cheated on me or something. I believed that has been form of offensive thing to ask but she explained the truth of all things that happened. She attended a celebration with the 3 friends shes been getting together with lately. She got drunk generating by helping cover their some guy and then the cops came and sent them all home. I hope she only comprised with him but would she go further when the cops didn't show? Also was she about to go riding on the motorcycle with him next monday? She sincerely apologizes what went down and says she doesn't want to interrupt up and wishes it never happened. I still love her so much and its particular so close till we can easily see each other, i dislike that this happened. I do believe were split up now but can i present her with another chance? I am aware the each cheater always one thing yet , think it could work? In my opinion that she feels pretty bad regarding it.

[serts]

(11-13-2011 06:08 AM)soubribra Wrote:  Please excuse my english, I'm from Morocco so here goes
My girlfriend and that i have been dating for more than 12 months. Last December she moved away to another r4 state. We have made several plans for college, careers, r4 etc. We're away for upwards of 4 months now however want to fly there come july 1st. Long-distance relationships are tough i have been really depressed since she left and no longer even hang out with my good friends.

if the girl no longer loves you, just let her go. Time will cure your pain.

[Mr Health]

I love relationship problems!If she moved on, don't "try and find closure" - move on! I understand that you probably have cultural differences where the relationship probably means more, honestly the fmaily fabric over here in the states is deteriorating at a rapid pace.
Stick it out, get over her, and better yourself. If you do manage to find out why she broke it off (and don't go crazy trying) work on those areas!